Kristin Cavallari is under fire for encouraging women to throw out the three-date rule, which proposes women should wait to have sex until at least the third date.
In response to a listener’s query about ‘how many dates’ she goes on before getting physically intimate with a new partner, the reality star, 36, revealed she typically waits ‘three or four dates.’
Recently, however, the mother-of-three said she no longer thinks it is important to take her time before sleeping with a potential new love interest.
‘It doesn’t f**king matter if you sleep with him the first or the 10th date,’ she said on her Let’s Be Honest podcast. ‘If there is chemistry and feelings there, it doesn’t matter.’
Sparking debate: Kristin Cavallari is under fire for encouraging women to throw out the three-date rule, which proposes women should wait to have sex until at least the third date
Her thoughts: In response to a listener’s query about ‘how many dates’ she goes on before getting physically intimate with a new partner, the reality star, 36, revealed she typically waits ‘three or four dates’
Cavallari went on to cite a post, shared by a relationship coach, which she said claimed ‘90% of couples, who are in, like, the best relationships, where they found ‘The One,’ all slept together the first or second date,’
‘So, I don’t think it matters,’ the Laguna Beach alum, who split from her ex-husband Jay Cutler after nine years of marriage in 2022, insisted.
Her remarks ignited a fierce debate on social media as well as a flood of sexist comments in her comment section.
‘This is possibly the worst advice you could give, hands down.’ one wrote. ‘Especially for younger followers who look up to you. Shame on you. Is that how you would want your daughter or someone who marries you son to view intimacy? Unfollowing.’
Another wrote: ‘WRONG!!! So much wrong with this.’
A third cruelly suggested that this mindset is why Cavallari is ‘divorced and still looking for someone.’
Many expressed disappointment that the Uncommon James founder would pass on ‘such tragic advice’ to other women.
‘Chemistry is not an indication that you are with the right person,’ one follower commented.
No more rules: Recently, however, the mother-of-two revealed on her Let’s Be Honest podcast that she began thinking it doesn’t ‘f**king matter’
Her remarks ignited a fierce debate on social media as well as a flood of sexist comments in her comment section.
‘This is possibly the worst advice you could give, hands down.’ one wrote. ‘Especially for younger followers who look up to you. Shame on you. Is that how you would want your daughter or someone who marries you son to view intimacy? Unfollowing’
Another wrote: ‘WRONG!!! So much wrong with this’
Mean: A third cruelly suggested that this mindset is why Cavallari is ‘divorced and still looking for someone’
‘Wow this is disturbing!’ another said
‘It’s sad that she is giving this kind of advice when thousands of young women are looking up to her,’ one critic fired
Others described her advice as ‘tragic’ and ‘said’
Cavallari was previously in relationships with Stephen Colletti on The Hills, Talan Torriero, Brody Jenner, Nick Zano and Matt Leinart.
She was also linked to Nick Lachey and Chris Evans in the mid-2000s, before tying the knot with Cutler.
The Very Cavallari star and former football star welcomed their sons sons Camden, 10, and Jaxon, 8, as well as daughter Saylor, 7, during their longitme relationship.
Following their breakup, she romanced country music singer Chase Rice, stand-up comedian Jeff Dye and Bachelor veteran Tyler Cameron, who she recently said was the hottest person she’s ever hooked up with.
‘Tyler Cameron. And believe it or not, you guys, I know this is really freaking hard to believe, he’s hotter in person,’ she said on her podcast last week. ‘It’s insane. It’s insane. So yeah, TC for you baby.’
One women told other ladies ang men to ‘have more self respect than to follow’ the star’s advice
‘This is the absolute worst advice to give to young females, especially in today’s society,’ another wrote
Others questioned the dating coach’s information that Cavarllari was citing
‘Chemistry is not an indication that you are with the right person,’ one follower commented
Back in 2009, Kristin was rumored to be dating John Mayer and quizzed on their potential romance on the podcast, she remained coy.
The star previously claimed she had turned down the Gravity singer’s advances.
She told Ryan Seacrest on his KIIS-FM show: ‘I didn’t want to be another notch on his belt.’
Meanwhile, the Uncommon James founder recently admitted she has been ‘catfishing’ on dating app Raya by not making any mention of her children on her profile.
Famous ex: The Very Cavallari star was previously married to football star Jay Cutler with whom she has three children: sons Camden, 10, and Jaxon, 8, and daughter Saylor, 7. Seen in 2019
Speaking to Justin Anderson on her podcast, she admitted : ‘I do feel like I’m catfishing people to a degree because I don’t have anything about my kids on Raya.
‘Not only do I have kids, I have three kids. Like, I have a crew.’
Justin then asked: ‘So why can’t you in your bio just be like Mom? Mama bear, what do women always say, like, “Mama to three littles.”‘
Kristin laughed and claimed she’d never get a date if she was truthful.
She replied: ‘I’ll never get matched with anybody!’